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Brain Dump: boys, work, dates, social, exercise, & boyfriend - The Autobiography of Russell
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Brain Dump: boys, work, dates, social, exercise, & boyfriend
It's been an odd few weeks.

I had two boyfriends for a while, but then one broke up with me; drama ensued. The ex has been exorcised.
I got hit on, without invitation, by someone from game night; more drama ensued. Avoidance commenced.
Personal and trust issues cropped up; yet more drama ensued. Decisions were made and things move forward.

Work was pretty good in June, making more than enough to cover the bills and maybe even put some in savings after the next paycheck. July, on the other hand, has been mostly dry. An hour here and an hour there doesn't add up to the rent. I'm hoping things change drastically soon, and have talked to my freelance source, but that's going to make me very busy very soon to make up for the dry spell.

I have a dinner & games date on Tuesday. Discussions of polyamory and relationship views are likely to occur. Beyond that is unknown.

susandennis is very kind. The nice thing about zimzat is that he tends to treat stuff he wouldn't ordinarily do as an opportunity to try something new. She graciously allowed me to tag along with her to a aqua aerobics swim class this past Saturday morning, then to brunch and a couple of yarn shops. The class was interesting and I would be stupid to turn down an exercise motivator and accomplice so I asked to accompany her again on Saturdays.

Things with Brian are going good. He seems to be enjoying himself whenever he's over. I even got him a collar last Friday. Per his view, we're going with the understanding that the collar is technically mine and I'm letting him use it but it will be up to him to maintain it. I was supposed to give him one of the keys before we parted on Friday, but instead I discovered one of his friends was going to be staying over at his place that night so I dropped it in their bag, which was sitting open next to me at the table. When he asked for the key I told him it would be going home with him, although I didn't specifically give it to either of his friends (that might've been slightly awkward since I only just met them, heh), and to ping me when he was ready to take it off. A few hours later he was ready to take it off and asked for the key; I told him where it was and got the most delightful reply once they found it. heheheheheh Yes, I'm a horribly evil tease. *whistles innocently*

That's enough of a brain dump for now.

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legolastn From: legolastn Date: July 17th, 2012 03:35 am (UTC) (Link)
Glad to hear things are going well with Brian. That was a delightful tease indeed.

Edited at 2012-07-17 03:35 am (UTC)
zimzat From: zimzat Date: July 17th, 2012 03:52 am (UTC) (Link)
Thanks. I'm happy with the way things are going with him. Still so many unknowns about the future and what-not, but I don't think I'd have it any other way. :)
marklevoyageur From: marklevoyageur Date: July 17th, 2012 03:42 am (UTC) (Link)
I hope you find enough work to make rent. You have such exciting, open, and refreshing sexual interests. Seems like your preference subset (young/gay/nerds/gamers/polyamorous/bondage) would limit contacts - I guess not. So glad you've made contacts/friends quickly in Seattle.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: July 17th, 2012 03:51 am (UTC) (Link)
You're definitely on to something with the subtype limitations. Anywhere else I would also be thinking exactly that as well, but so far Seattle has had lots of non-norm people. It's quite refreshing versus Atlanta, Vegas, and other confined places.

Believe it or not, bondage actually isn't one of my types or desires. :-P It's something I can have limited interest in if the other person wants it (my interest is their interest), and it makes great for my desire to tease, but nothing heavy or too serious. :)

Socially I'm like a chameleon. A little here, a little there, & blended into the background.
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