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The Autobiography of Russell
Life from a different perspective
zimzat
zimzat
To Choose, That Is The Question
I still haven't figured out why I should have to choose only one of them.

It's not like things are going anywhere with either of them very fast.

Current Mood: tired tired
Current Music: "Be Yourself" By Enrique Iglesias

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From: claytonzjones Date: December 15th, 2006 01:54 pm (UTC) (Link)
Well, personally I agree with that. I've always seen dating as a chance to see if someone is worth the commitment. Meaning that dating in and of itself is no commitment. Is there some reason you would have to choose?
zimzat From: zimzat Date: December 15th, 2006 04:29 pm (UTC) (Link)
One of them keeps asking (one way or another) if I would choose them or someone else. We haven't even gotten to a second date at this point (the first was two and a half weeks ago), and there are so many complications on his part that it's just amusing.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: December 15th, 2006 04:39 pm (UTC) (Link)
PS: I meant choosing at all (Polyamory).

I realize this makes me seem like I want to have my cake and eat it too (which is somehow a bad thing?), so I'm unsure what to make of this.
From: claytonzjones Date: December 15th, 2006 07:08 pm (UTC) (Link)
Actually... I don't find anything wrong with that concept either... as long as all the people involved can deal with it... it's all good... *shrug*
zimzat From: zimzat Date: December 15th, 2006 07:18 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yeah, see, that's the thing, neither of these guys are open to the idea. I don't think either of them have really given it any thought because this is the bible belt, after all, and straight monogamy is crammed down everyone's throat from the get go. One isn't even out of the closet yet. >.>

*shrugs too* What will be will be. :-)
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