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The Autobiography of Russell
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zimzat
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Stood up
I'm 50 miles from home and I've been stood up. There's no response & I'm too chicken to show up unannounced since its his parents dad's house. Oh boy.

Update: Right after I posted this he and his dad drove right past me, and then he messaged me saying "Well i just left with my dad my fone was off last nite. Sorry." There is absolutely no way I'm driving back out to see him now. If he wants to see me then he can drive here. Don't make plans you can't keep, and if you can't keep the plans you make then don't leave people hanging. That's the one thing I can't stand that my sister does all the time.

... In all truth, I knew it was likely to come down to this. He has said he would visit numerous times before, but only once (soon after we first met) actually did.

Current Mood: frustrated frustrated
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neo_prodigy From: neo_prodigy Date: January 7th, 2007 07:54 pm (UTC) (Link)
that is fucked up. i say show up unannounced. just be smart and keep your cool.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 08:53 pm (UTC) (Link)
Right after I posted this he and his dad drove right past me, and then he messaged me saying "Well i just left with my dad my fone was off last nite. Sorry."

There is absolutely no way I'm driving back out to see him now. If he wants to see me then he can drive here.
neo_prodigy From: neo_prodigy Date: January 7th, 2007 08:57 pm (UTC) (Link)
that was a bullshit excuse. i wouldn't even give him the time of day after that stunt.

that fucking bites dude.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 09:19 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yes, yes it does. Such is life, though, and especially my life. Oh well.
sisyphus238 From: sisyphus238 Date: January 7th, 2007 08:49 pm (UTC) (Link)
That's rude. Do you have his number?
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 08:55 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yes, I have his cell number. I tried text messaging and calling him. All the calls went immediately to his voice mail.

Right after I posted this he and his dad drove right past me, and then he messaged me saying "Well i just left with my dad my fone was off last nite. Sorry."

There is absolutely no way I'm driving back out to see him now. If he wants to see me then he can drive here.
romeohotel From: romeohotel Date: January 7th, 2007 08:58 pm (UTC) (Link)
If you're feeling snarky, message back - "I only date people with proper spelling and grammar." =P.

It's a pet peeve of mine, but phone is not spelled "fone," night is not "nite" and using dumbassisms like that just makes people look like morons.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 09:02 pm (UTC) (Link)
This is how it went:

He sent that message above, then I responded with: "So I take it that's a no then. Great, I just drove 50 miles for nothing. Thanks a lot.
And that was probably you that passed me a moment ago, too."

His response: "Yea it was. I am with my dad."

My response: "And your point is?
My point is you just stood me up, and I don't care anymore. Go find someone else to play with. I'm not doing this again."
romeohotel From: romeohotel Date: January 7th, 2007 09:06 pm (UTC) (Link)
You forgot to send him the gas bill :-P
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 09:13 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yeah, eight dollars and fifty cents. x-x
romeohotel From: romeohotel Date: January 7th, 2007 09:15 pm (UTC) (Link)
Don't forget whatever else you could have done today.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 09:19 pm (UTC) (Link)
What, go stalk Hastings to see if that guy is there and be twice a coward in one day? Or sit at Papa Johns and chat with the other workers, and maybe even out myself?

haha, yeah, right.

There are tentative plans to play Racquetball with my brother at the Caruthersville Recreation Center, but they're only going to open another three hours today and he doesn't look ready yet.
romeohotel From: romeohotel Date: January 7th, 2007 09:21 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yeah, that's why God invented lying. You can dream up all kinds of elaborate plans you junked to drive out to bumblefuck and see his lazy ass. :-P
zimzat From: zimzat Date: January 7th, 2007 09:24 pm (UTC) (Link)
God invented lying? ... Wow. It's a good thing I'm not religious then, or I'd probably be lying all the time. Like all these other "religious" people who lie and cheat.
irish_n_sac From: irish_n_sac Date: January 8th, 2007 09:41 pm (UTC) (Link)
Man that blows...where did you meet this guy ?
I hat when guys are AssHats...
one of my rules is:
I make a trip one time and If not willing ta come to me I sure as hell won't come to you any more... ( this helps if they have a car..lol)
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