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The Autobiography of Russell
Life from a different perspective
zimzat
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Things I get flak for
I'm used to getting flak for wanting to cuddle more than have sex, but it's something new for me to get flak for wanting to kiss during sex. And I'm also getting flak for wanting to both top and bottom. Ok, fine, but just because you disagree doesn't mean I'll change my mind.

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Current Music: "Les Préludes" by Franz Liszt

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theatredork From: theatredork Date: June 21st, 2007 07:23 am (UTC) (Link)
No kissing during sex? Then what's the point.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: June 21st, 2007 11:17 am (UTC) (Link)
Supposedly just to get off, but I don't really have any need for that.

(One response I got to that was "your young")
foucaultonacid From: foucaultonacid Date: June 21st, 2007 08:54 am (UTC) (Link)
see if you came here we could have sex, kiss and cuddle all at once - and then we could roll over and do it all again. i'm versatile - i'll hug on top or on bottom.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: June 21st, 2007 11:24 am (UTC) (Link)
i'm versatile - i'll hug on top or on bottom.

*raises an eyebrow* Are you being sarcastic?
raist_ From: raist_ Date: June 21st, 2007 11:34 am (UTC) (Link)
That's pretty fucked up if you ask me.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: June 21st, 2007 11:42 am (UTC) (Link)
Yeah. Apparently living in Vegas does things to people. That kind of thing seems perfectly acceptable to the people out here.
raist_ From: raist_ Date: June 21st, 2007 01:27 pm (UTC) (Link)
You should inform your fling to stop taking relationship advice from Julia Roberts' hooker in Pretty Woman. :p
zimzat From: zimzat Date: June 21st, 2007 01:53 pm (UTC) (Link)
hahahaha. I'll keep that in mind. :-P

(I don't think I've seen that movie. hmm...)
raist_ From: raist_ Date: June 21st, 2007 02:01 pm (UTC) (Link)
No? It's actually a good movie when it comes down to it. I happen to be fond of it.

But the big thing is that her hooker lead character refuses to kiss because it's "too intimate" and reserved for love.
zimzat From: zimzat Date: June 21st, 2007 02:33 pm (UTC) (Link)
*adds to top of NetFlix queue*

I already have issues with "love", so trying to say something is reserved for love would be difficult to begin with. The most I've done is say something is reserved for a relationship, although I'm breaking out of that one to a certain degree (which is another thing I'm getting flak for, because I still won't do it until I've known the person for a while and am comfortable with them / it).
flytiw From: flytiw Date: June 22nd, 2007 06:11 am (UTC) (Link)
Maybe they're just bad kissers. I've never had anyone give me that line in Seattle, although there were a couple that were such awful kissers, I wish they would have!
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