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The Autobiography of Russell
Life from a different perspective
zimzat
zimzat
Dropped connections; passive losses
I took off tomorrow and Friday so I would have time to hang out with imsaguy while he is in Las Vegas this week. He hasn't responded to a single IM or text message in the last two weeks and now calls are going unanswered to his voice mail. I think it's safe to say it isn't going to happen.

At work we were supposed to have a team lunch last Thursday but then my boss two levels up had to reschedule. He tried to schedule it for tomorrow but it's not much of a team lunch if everyone in the team can't go. I had already scheduled for tentative time off so today he asked if I was sure if I wasn't going to be there tomorrow. I didn't want to say I would be there and then finally hear back from imsaguy so I told him it was safer to say I wasn't. The team lunch has now been rescheduled for Thursday of next week. And now I'll be there tomorrow. I think I'll still take off Friday just to get some business in town taken care of.

I dunno. I think it's time he stopped pretending and just said "I don't want to associate with you". I could do it for him but I'm not inclined to make it easy on him. If he wants to drop a connection then I think that's something he needs to learn to do instead of letting everyone else make the decision for him and then saying they're the one who is at fault. I'm just saying... I certainly don't appreciate being treated like this.

Current Mood: pessimistic pessimistic
Current Music: "Thinking Over" by Dana Glover

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lakeguy From: lakeguy Date: November 24th, 2008 05:37 pm (UTC) (Link)
did you ever end up meeting up with him?
zimzat From: zimzat Date: November 25th, 2008 06:51 am (UTC) (Link)
Alas, no. I've tried to IM him once in a while when I see him online but still nothing. I don't know why. *shrugs*
lakeguy From: lakeguy Date: November 25th, 2008 07:39 am (UTC) (Link)
he hasn't answered me lately either
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