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Sometimes it's not about intent, it's about perception & understanding - The Autobiography of Russell
Life from a different perspective
zimzat
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Sometimes it's not about intent, it's about perception & understanding
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zimzat From: zimzat Date: July 23rd, 2012 08:54 pm (UTC) (Link)
Agreed, it can be hard to acknowledge where someone else is coming from while still not changing your own opinion or view.

From what you've just said you probably could understand where Tod is coming from based on what he says he's coming from, but this sounds more like a factual issue than a different perception of the same facts (e.g. un-emotive text). That would drive me up the wall, when someone calls into question my memory of events. I know I have a really good memory and, more often than not, astonish people with random recall of conversations or events that they're not sure about, so when someone says things happened one way and I'm sure they didn't in that order then it drives me up the wall. I've had this happen to me a couple of times from the same person and I started seriously questioning our relationship.
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